24/7 Ds… Can I??

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Day 26 of 30 days of self-exploration through D/s

When I think about D/s, I tend to think of sexual submission; being completely controlled during sexual play is a major turn on.  However, when I consider the idea of going 24/7, I am conflicted.  There are plenty of positive things that a 24/7 dynamic offers; security is perhaps the biggest benefit.  When you are in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, there is no time to wonder how your D/s relationship is doing, because you (hopefully) are reminded on a regular basis.  I envision a 24/7 dynamic as a bunch of set protocols that reinforce the limits and rules. 

I know my personal control issues keep me from trusting anyone enough to give over complete control in every aspect of my life. However, I have a deep respect for people that can, on both sides of the slash, give control over or take on that responsibility.  Further, I wonder if I have the patience to move at someone else’s pace.  Do not get me wrong, I understand that consent must always be freely given and can be revoked at any time.  However, that is perhaps the biggest reason I am leery of 24/7 D/s, I do not want to be the type of person that changes their mind often.  Waffling back and forth is a pet peeve of mine.

In short, right now in my life 24/7 is not the right fit. Perhaps in the months and years to come my Dom and I can consider something closer to 24/7, just not yet ;).

So, I would love to hear how others have made the journey.  Are you in a 24/7 dynamic?  Did you jump all in, or were there steps that got you there?  Or maybe you are like me, and think it just does not fit you at this point?

As always – thanks for stopping by – raxleanne

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The topic for this post was provided as part of LovingBDSM’s 30 days of D/s, which can be found here.  if you would like to join in, check them out.  If not, still check them out, they are great people doing great things for the D/s Community and so much more.

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