Day 19 of 30 days of self-exploration through D/s
Orgasm control, the often mysterious and devilish act that can encompass everything from complete orgasm denial, edging, forced, multiple orgasms and so much more. As a biological female and submissive, the idea of my Dominate having complete control over not only whether I do orgasm, but also the length and intensity of them is so…. HOT!
Squirting (female ejaculation)
In previous D/s dynamics, the Doms tended to enjoy more control over frequency then the forced or multiple orgasms. It was thanks to orgasm denial for over a month that I first came to know that I could ejaculate. Sometimes referred to as squirting, female ejaculation is not possible for every woman, but the ones that can will likely tell you that they gush more than squirt, especially if they are well hydrated. Do not be manipulated by porn images of women gushing rivers. While there can be quite a mess, those scenes are typically the result of the vaginal canal and even lower uterine space being filled with water at some point. The muscles spasms cause the effect. Reality is not hugely different. If I have been a good girl, drinking the amount of water that I should, there is often a large wet spot left behind. Lots of towels are a must in our sexual play.
When it comes to forced orgasms, the most common from what I have been told are clitoral orgasms. The clitoris becomes swollen and very sensitive during and after orgasm, so that in many cases, multiple or rolling (one after another, often indistinguishable) orgasms can occur easily, especially when using assisted manipulation; either a vibrator or partner. In my experience, and of those I have talked to, rarely are we disciplined enough to force rolling orgasms. In a way, the constant intensity needed is so overwhelming that we cannot keep up the pressure on our own. However, a partner is not limited by the urge to stop, so they can make it just keep coming (pun intended).
Finally, whether you have experienced orgasm control, or are just curious, there are many different levels and ways that a power exchange dynamic can determine the amount of control. If you have never given that power over, I encourage you to try it, you may be pleasantly surprised
As always – thanks for stopping by – raxleanne
The topic for this post was provided as part of LovingBDSM’s 30 days of D/s, which can be found here. if you would like to join in, check them out. If not, still check them out, they are great people doing great things for the D/s Community and so much more.